Marriage…
This word has the capability to raise many eyebrows and
amaze many people… but what really is the significance of this big heavy
word…??? Does this lifelong bond hold
that kind of value which really our parents/grandparents teach us??
Does it allow the gurl in an conservative Indian Hindu
society to decide by all her means on who she wishes to be her lifetime
partner…???
Wherever I c… I can c the gurl being forced to give in to
the wills, whims and fancies of her family to choose her life partner on their
terms and conditions??? Y cant we be given the sole right to choose – WHOM,
WHERE, HOW AND WHEN we would like or marry….
Being the respectable bond that it is… a bond which has to
sustain all the happiness, pain, anger, love, good to worse times together… to
find a person who is suitable to hold your hand in worse situations which are
normally out of our control…. IS it not necessary to held the test of time for
that one person with whom you are going to be emotionally dependant all your
life…??
Life takes you through tricky paths and love always has a
vicious circle to it… And marriage is the period when all these three cross
their paths… When you marry someone when
you love them and post that your entire life takes a turn… a turn which turns
your life upside down… The stage before your marriage is the most critical time
in your life…
I would request all the girls and guys to be vocal about
your feelings if you entering the arranged marriage zone… especially the girls…
Plz do not give in to the societal pressure and compromise on the most critical
decision of your life… It is your life and you are the sole person who can make
a good/bad decision about it...
Think, act, and feel the connect before saying a yes… or
deciding on this important matter called MARRIAGE…
All the best girls for your most important decicison and hope you all live the so called....."And they BOTH LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER"
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